How to Make a Man Fall in Love with You

Posted by Elliot April 25, 2012

In every affectionate relationship there are two levels of attraction and commitment. The first is a warm feeling known as infatuation. This involves strong feelings of attraction, but very little mental connection or commitment. The second level is of course love, which represents a full submission of senses to the other person. It is love that has the power to change lives and build dreams. This is why so many women search for ways to make men fall into love.

But how can you change the mindset of a man…especially when he is scared of commitment or constantly showing signs of withdrawal? The solution is in changing the way he feels about you. Now this doesn’t mean you have to change your appearance or sacrifice your values, but it does require a change in the way you interact with him.

The difference between men and women, at least when it comes to dating, is the way men view the value of a relationship. While both sides need to feel a sense security and trust in the relationship, men rely more on a sense of fantasy to gauge their interest level. They think about how it might be if this-that-or-the-other were to happen. They are always thinking ahead, and it is up to you to fulfill their current fantasies AND keep them dreaming up new ones for the future.

More than anything, it is important to keep your man off-balance. You begin to lose your advantage in a relationship when things get too comfortable. Of course you don't want to go starting fights or pulling stunts to add emotion to your evenings. It just means you need to keep your romance engaging and unpredictable. You can make him take notice and appreciate you more with surprise dinner reservations or even by showing up on his lunch hour to say "Hi".

The most important part of making a man love you is to build the level of passion and physical attraction. Using the natural male instincts to draw him to you is a surefire way to melting his heart. You see, our brains are already wired to seek out the opposite sex. This means most of the hard work is done for you. If you can capture his attention and gently stroke his ego it will slowly lead him into love submission.

Can you make men fall in love with you? It really is much easier than is sounds, but you'll need to use all of your natural abilities as well as the art of seduction to be successful. His desire for you should escalate to the point that you become all he thinks about. Start by occupying his primal instincts and then focus on connecting with his thoughts and dreams.

T.W. Jackson explains the 4 very distinct reasons men pull away in a relationship. He calls them the 4 Masculine Hero Avatar Principles (4 M.H.A.P.)

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